I understand what you mean and I don't think it's an easy thing. And I also don't think its something that you maybe can accept at heart quickly, but what I meant was that maybe when you have "had your best time" in the scoring department maybe you'll have to focus more and more on all those other aspects of golf and see it as a good and fun way to activate your body. Hopefully you'll still find enjoyment in the game that way. Also I think there is no ultimate way to handle it that works for everyone, everyone makes their own specific journey in life and handle it there after and I don't think golf is a exception. Tappin' for world peace in HD!