I'm not getting the tattoo, every time she asked I flat out said no, despite protest from her. I keep telling her it's something I do not want, and 'if' we ever break up I would live to regret it. She get's really upset when I use the word 'if' though, as if I mean 'will'. But I have absolutely NO idea what to give her for her 21st B'Day, she said she would much rather have me have the tattoo over a ring or a car as it would mean much more to her It can't be anything expensive unfortunately as we are both trying to save up to get our own place. And a 21st B'Day (at least in Australia) is considered very special. Damn, I'm so lost[no]