Well i did it.... I asked if she wanted to come for a drink after work...she started thinking. told me she was meeting her friend at 6.30....i said what time you finish she said 3.30. She said she needs to get sleep....but she'll tell me at dinner (an hour or so) what her decision is. "Difficult not to feel a little disapointed" (maynard lol). Well....i did it. Now i wait.....though i think i already know it's a "no".