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**Suvaxal** · 06-11-2012, 11:48 PM

Jazak Allahu Khair,
I pray, and I make du'a and I cry night and day..
I don't know ancy muslim who can help me! that's why I feel hopeless but anyway I still hope Allah will change my conditions sooner or later!

you can not immagine how much it hurts, I felt so close to Allah before, I never had many friends and I didn't need friends I always had ALlah by side, but now I am overwhelmed by fear and I think because of the fear and because of the depression I can't feel close to him anymore, and that makes me even more depressed!

I understand trust me, I do, personally and professionally.

What you need to do is FOCUS on trying to get out of the situation while Shaytaan is going to keep bringing the situation to your attention.

Don’t try to fight the Waswasis of Shaytaan because he will just keep attacking one way or another, instead FOCUS on something else.

You need to have a PLAN, now tell me what is your PLAN on achieving something positive? You need to do something e.g. learn some new skills, join a Gym do something positive which you can achieve.

Your plan needs to have three simple aspects:

You need to like (whatever you want to do)
You need to have a realistic target (don’t try to overachieve)
You need to set a realistic time (set a timeframe).

So tell us what do you want to do? Ignore your depression and your Waswasa for the time being. Even something little because when you achieve it your confidence will go up and slowly but surely you will dig yourself out of the hole.

06-11-2012, 11:48 PM	#6
Suvaxal Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 515 Senior Member	Jazak Allahu Khair, I pray, and I make du'a and I cry night and day.. I don't know ancy muslim who can help me! that's why I feel hopeless but anyway I still hope Allah will change my conditions sooner or later! you can not immagine how much it hurts, I felt so close to Allah before, I never had many friends and I didn't need friends I always had ALlah by side, but now I am overwhelmed by fear and I think because of the fear and because of the depression I can't feel close to him anymore, and that makes me even more depressed! I understand trust me, I do, personally and professionally. What you need to do is FOCUS on trying to get out of the situation while Shaytaan is going to keep bringing the situation to your attention. Don’t try to fight the Waswasis of Shaytaan because he will just keep attacking one way or another, instead FOCUS on something else. You need to have a PLAN, now tell me what is your PLAN on achieving something positive? You need to do something e.g. learn some new skills, join a Gym do something positive which you can achieve. Your plan needs to have three simple aspects: You need to like (whatever you want to do) You need to have a realistic target (don’t try to overachieve) You need to set a realistic time (set a timeframe). So tell us what do you want to do? Ignore your depression and your Waswasa for the time being. Even something little because when you achieve it your confidence will go up and slowly but surely you will dig yourself out of the hole.
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