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The thing is he knows what i was like before marriage why can't he accept me for what i am!!

Well most of the women just get adopted to the taste of men after marriage I think because after marriage a husband becomes a main person in a women's life and her life sort of moves around him. Some get adopted easily and some get used to it over a time and some just tolerate each other. Before marriage, I dont think men and women even talk much lest discuss these things, right? So he might not be thinking the way you are. I know it could be difficult for you to adopt to his taste but then after all we use our looks more to please the husband. So it is better we bring some changes in us that is liked by our men. Let Allah SWT help us all. Ameen
The thought of pleasing Allah SWT through this might help you to adopt easily to his taste inshaaAllah. Allahu alam