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**sallythetolly** · 06-06-2012, 11:18 PM

I understand, however why marry me in the first place if he wants to change me and they way i look, i dont wear heavy makeup or dress inappropriately but he wants me to cover my face and what not but this is not ISLAM!!!

Sister, in these days of fitna, uncovering the face even without make-ups is not good, the way some men gaze at women. Normally no men of ghayra will like other men to look at his woman's face like that. Being a man he knows better the situation outside and perhaps that is why he is instructing. inshaaAllah you will be rewarded for being obedient to him. Allahu alam.

PS: I know it is easy to advise but then everyone have to struggle one way or the other to adjust to new things but then when we remember Allah SWT more and try to do for His sake, we can get over things with some struggle against the nafs inshaaAllah. Let Allah SWT bless your marriage. Ameen

06-06-2012, 11:18 PM	#11
sallythetolly Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 421 Senior Member	I understand, however why marry me in the first place if he wants to change me and they way i look, i dont wear heavy makeup or dress inappropriately but he wants me to cover my face and what not but this is not ISLAM!!! Sister, in these days of fitna, uncovering the face even without make-ups is not good, the way some men gaze at women. Normally no men of ghayra will like other men to look at his woman's face like that. Being a man he knows better the situation outside and perhaps that is why he is instructing. inshaaAllah you will be rewarded for being obedient to him. Allahu alam. PS: I know it is easy to advise but then everyone have to struggle one way or the other to adjust to new things but then when we remember Allah SWT more and try to do for His sake, we can get over things with some struggle against the nafs inshaaAllah. Let Allah SWT bless your marriage. Ameen
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