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**sallythetolly** · 06-06-2012, 11:30 PM

Islam is about equality and my husband should do what i want too why do i have to vhange everything. He is not the boss!!

Well Allah SWT is our boss and Allah SWT has made the men ameer. He SWT in His infinite wisdom has alloted some jobs to men and women. In certain things, men excel and in certain things, women excel. Allah SWT has made the men door to jannah for women. If he is pleased, Allah SWT is pleased with us and if he is displeased, then we are earning Allah's displeasure. As long as the husband doesnt instruct us to go against the commands of Allah SWT, he deserves the right to be obeyed and so are the parents. As wives, we should try our best to work out the marriage and that is the wise thing to do. inshaaAllah when we do it for sake of Allah SWT and please Him, we will dedinitely be rewarded in both the worlds inshaaAllah.
Allahu alam

06-06-2012, 11:30 PM	#13
sallythetolly Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 421 Senior Member	Islam is about equality and my husband should do what i want too why do i have to vhange everything. He is not the boss!! Well Allah SWT is our boss and Allah SWT has made the men ameer. He SWT in His infinite wisdom has alloted some jobs to men and women. In certain things, men excel and in certain things, women excel. Allah SWT has made the men door to jannah for women. If he is pleased, Allah SWT is pleased with us and if he is displeased, then we are earning Allah's displeasure. As long as the husband doesnt instruct us to go against the commands of Allah SWT, he deserves the right to be obeyed and so are the parents. As wives, we should try our best to work out the marriage and that is the wise thing to do. inshaaAllah when we do it for sake of Allah SWT and please Him, we will dedinitely be rewarded in both the worlds inshaaAllah. Allahu alam
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