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Old 03-26-2012, 02:21 AM   #19
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Sister I am not aware of female Shaykhas. Even sisters are supposed to consult a Shaykh only. You can even have a bayt. It shall be with a curtain between you and your Shaykh and you shall be with a Mahram. You can have correspondence with your Shaykh, with or without bayt, but all your letters to and fro will be read by a mahram. That is how Shuyukh conduct female tarbiyyah. Since your location is Belgium I am rather hampered by my lack of knowledge about the Shuyukh in that region.

Our friend Dr76 and other brothers and sisters might be of help. May Allah(SWT) make it easy for you and may He spread the benefits of our Masha-ikh far and wide. May He make Islam a Rahmat for whole of the world - a Rahmat that it is.
Wassalam





Ameen.

Thanks a lot and for your reply.

If there are no Murshidas out there, then I will insha Allah ta’aala become the mureeda of a Murshid instead. It’s just that I won’t be able to benefit from his company like his male disciples and right now, it’s righteous company I’m seeking. I’m convinced righteous company would do so much for my Iman. The other day I was watching Shaykh Mohammad Hassan(may Allah ta’aala preserve him) and could actually feel the softening of my heart walhamdulillahi ta'ala. I thought “if this is the case just watching a kamil Shaykh, imagine their effect on my Iman in person!” The other thing is, Shaykh Mohammad Hassan isn’t a sufi but from his akhlaaq it’s evident he exercises muraaqabah over his nafs, as if every word passes by his heart before ever leaving his mouth. I guess we could call him a quasi-sufi … and, personally, I’d feel more at ease learning under such Shuyuukh because they seem to me - do forgive me now - more ‘normal’ than our sufi shaykhs. So, if anyone could recommend me Shaykhs like him, it would mean a lot ta’aala.

Barak Allah ta’aala.



PS I’m not in Belgium brother Maripat heheh, I’m currently living in Cairo. Barak Allah ta’aala
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