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**UMATURLIN** · 10-05-2011, 07:16 PM

Hope everybody is doing well, inshaAllah.

A reminder to myself first and everybody else here.

We all come from different backgrounds and different cultures but the one thing that binds us all together is Islam. Islam encourages muslims to be good to each other, love each other for the sake of Allah and to free our hearts of all malice, spite and envy.

Especially on forums when emotions are running high we make comments which are not liked by all. We tend to hold grudges against others forever for those comments. Even in real life, we tend to remember the date and time and incident when so and so said so and so, and hold on it even if that person is good to them otherwise.

Here is a hadith..

Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Messenger (peace be upon him) said:

"The gates of Paradise will be opened on Monday and on Thursdays, and every servant [of Allah] who associates nothing with Allah will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. [About them] it will be said, 'Delay these two until they are reconciled. Delay these two until they are reconciled. Delay these two until they are reconciled.'" [Muslim, Maalik, Abu Dawood]

Let's forgive each other for the sake of Allah. I sincerely ask for forgiveness if I have hurt anybody here and request your duas.

10-05-2011, 07:16 PM	#1
UMATURLIN Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 446 Senior Member	Holding grudges! Hope everybody is doing well, inshaAllah. A reminder to myself first and everybody else here. We all come from different backgrounds and different cultures but the one thing that binds us all together is Islam. Islam encourages muslims to be good to each other, love each other for the sake of Allah and to free our hearts of all malice, spite and envy. Especially on forums when emotions are running high we make comments which are not liked by all. We tend to hold grudges against others forever for those comments. Even in real life, we tend to remember the date and time and incident when so and so said so and so, and hold on it even if that person is good to them otherwise. Here is a hadith.. Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "The gates of Paradise will be opened on Monday and on Thursdays, and every servant [of Allah] who associates nothing with Allah will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. [About them] it will be said, 'Delay these two until they are reconciled. Delay these two until they are reconciled. Delay these two until they are reconciled.'" [Muslim, Maalik, Abu Dawood] Let's forgive each other for the sake of Allah. I sincerely ask for forgiveness if I have hurt anybody here and request your duas.
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