This I why we need a 100% halal, 100% modest, 100% respectable matrimonial service. I know sisters who are in the same scenario as mentioned above, divorcee sisters with children looking for a respectable 'part time' pious husband, divorcees looking for someone to share their future with. All have a few traits that will need to be ignored; all considered to be 'tarnished' by our perfect-spouse seeking society and all of whom are too modest to go and advertise themselves through the limited other avenues available.