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my question to everyone is, is this type of sufism where you become one with allah and that type of stuff the true sufism or the false sufism? If its the false sufism, where do i learn the principles of the true sufism, i dont want indepth, i want an overview so i can full understand what sufism itself actually is

There is no true and false sufism. The only thing is that Sufis have gradually become clever( And of-course they don't want to become Mansoor Hallaj) and they are only going to reveal the stuff you mentioned to you when they feel that you can digest it. At the beginning , they are to keep it low like they will tell you "Tasawwuf is all about Tazkyaa" , "Tasawwuf is just an apparatus which helps one reach the status of Ehsan" etc etc