By the way, that didn't work^ I ended up dating the girl for almost 3 years off and on, we almost got married, until she moved to California to be with her dad who had lung cancer... Anyway, I see nothing wrong with paying for sex... But it's out of principle that I refuse to do it... I do like the concept and always give girls money... I do it because I'm generous and do well financially... I just feel that it's right to sneak some money in my girl's purse here and there... Especially when we're first dating, because I know it costs money for them to meet me, or they have expenses, sometimes they may take time off work to stay with me a few days, or whatever... I just got back from Colombia and there it seems as if all of the girls were hookers... It was fucking depressing after a while... I'll tell you why, I'm a decent looking guy, a licensed professional, I do well for myself, I have a good body and big cock... I have game too... Yet These girls wanted to charge me, just like they would charge an old man, who's out of shape and probably can't get it up... WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT?!?! I refused that shit... and I see their point, they are broke and for them it's business, some of the ones I spoke to, actually most if not all of the working girls, had kids... They said that in Colombia it's hard for them to get child support... So their priorities were in supporting their families not finding a boyfriend... On the other hand, if you go to the wealthier places with college girls and the more upscale places, you can get laid for free because the girls are young, hot, horny and just looking for a good time and not to make a buck off of you... That said... Do I want a gf? would it have been wise (or actually was it wise) that I did have sex with girls there, exchanged numbers, added them on facebook? Nope... Sure I can brag that I've got game and got laid for free, but now I'm thinking about them; I haven't stopped drinking once, I can't get one girl in particular out of my head and now my gf here is giving me shit about her... My gf is cool with me fucking other girls and she's bi herself and we've had threeways, but now for some reason that I can't really pinpoint, I developed some feelings for this girl in Colombia, It's pissing me off, but I felt a strong connection with her... I really wish that I had just gone with working girls, fucked them, not remembered any of their names, paid them and that was that... It's not just the amount of money you spend on them (Which btw, I probably spent more on taking them out to eat and buying gifts than what paying a working girl would have charged) It's not really the money that bothers me, but the fucking with my head that happens when trying to play with girls... I can juggle a lot of different women, but every once in a while one will get to me and that's that I'm very experienced...