I would like to ask the poster this question. Let's say someone has taken a family member of yours & has them captive. The person who kidnapped your family member is in a police station, & is reluctant to tell where your family member is. But, they do know that if this person does not talk soon, your family member will die. Do you now believe in a little torture to get this person to talk, or would you prefer that the police make them comfortable with coffee & donuts?