[Duseshoug]

is there another sword style or competition that is closer related to how i spar?

Look at chanbara, live action role playing (LARP), Society for Creative Anachronism (SCA) melee combat, or just keep wacking your friends in the woods.

What you're doing now is unrelated to any serious study of swordplay, so I suggest to avoid negative comments, avoid this site. You might be able to find something closer to what you want if you post in the general area at swordforum.com.