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This is a serious post for which I am not normally noted.

But I do need some advice on something which is delicate to say the least.

I believe a fellow Martial artist is liking me in a way that I would not welcome.

I have been told that he talks about me all the time. I have also been made aware that he has a habit of writing my name down quite often.

Although we no longer have regular contact I have been told by mutual acquaintances that he gets all hot and sweaty when he talks about me.

I realise these people could well be just trying to wind me up which is fine as then there is no problem (apart from possibly some paranoia on my part) - but if it is true how should I manage it?

I don't wish to come across as mean or hurt his feelings but my type tend to be A - female, B- voluptuous, C- good sense of humour, D - nice figure, not skinny, E- don't take themselves too seriously.

And he does not fit this at all.

Any thoughts?