[FailiaFelay]

Sats, start by changing your signature!!

bend like a willow in the breeze...... :P

Seriously now, I agree with the above, been in a very similar situation myself (not in the Dojo), if he happens to ask say no thanks, and don't lead him on (for example: by going for a pint with him thinking you are being nice, he might take it the wrong way).

Other than that make sure your mates are not winding you up