[saerensenatljn]

Uh I'm new to this Forum too. Stephanie stopped Iai and Kendo because everybody loved her so much she couldn't spare time for her other love?
Steph's superb avatar makes the testudo hermanii (Russian Tortoises) in mine look like they been whupped by an ugly stick...and even slower, sigh.

So wait, she didn't lose her arms?? o_o

Erm, not quite.
It's a neologism which is apparently lost on the younger generation.

I still don't get it.