Are you saying that these people are freaks? That somehow our system is better? I am sure we have had none that have done bad being raised in a traditional monogamous relationship... Depends on how you see it. This is where the change comes in. You do not treat women like cattle. You make the road two-way and allow women to do the same if they so chose. You also eliminate the direct association of this with any particular group or religion. Lastly, you expose these kids to the world outside. this is the one thing that has been giving moany countries that seek to oppress the biggest problems. Knowledge of the outside world. Why are there no 5 husband groups? Because the places that have poligamy are usually male dominated where the male earns the money. the more money you make, the more family you can support. When you start introducing this to Westren society, however, it can get a little tangled up. You also know of the sexual nature of men and women. That by "instinct", to put it nicely, men will wander. Women will too, but I saw somethnig interesting about this when they were studying a tribe in Africa. They found that men did indeed roam, but women were much sneakier about it. I will not go into that, being as it may or may not upset some people, but suffice to say, as a species we do get around. Anyway, the key to adopting poligamy in western society WITHOUT regressingto the same conditions that exist in some countries is the continuing education of ALL youth, and the support for equal rights of all. If wife #3 wants a divorce, she should be allowed, and that will come as time moves on. As these women learn more and earn more, they should be allowed as many men as they can support, but with the same rules. Will this mean you will se an equality? Probably not. Just by our own biology we will do things differently, but hating poligamy is different than disagreeing with it. You have to stay logical and, as I have said before, seperate the root from its possible extensions. Hate just makes he pendulum swing faster.