I guess I'll turn this into livejournal too. I'm 26, I feel like I've underachieved in everything in life and I think that the "forever alone" guy is hurtful because I can very much relate to that. I don't have any real friends (as in friends I would share everything with and to rely on) and now I'm having some girl problems too. I dated this wonderful girl for about one year, ended like in November maybe? I pretty much screwed up because I kept in touch with my previous GF, she found out and freaked over it. She said she was too hurt and couldn't be with me anymore, and that I betrayed her and all that stuff. From then her reactions went from "Don't want to talk to you ever again", to talking to me normally, to talking to me like nothing happened. I was with her last week and she cried a lot, hugging me and saying that she couldn't do it, I kept saying that I wouldn't let her go, because I like her a lot and I "would make things right this time". Last week she suddenly stop replying to my messages, became very cold and very distant. I tried everything to talk with her, and today I spend all day trying to call her so we could talk things out. She kept replying with messages saying that it's over, she doesn't want to be with me, that she no longer wants to see me ever again. I insisted until she picked up the telephone. She was sounding VERY angry and irritated, saying that she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore, saying that she has no feelings for me, and she desires not to see me ever again. I tried being calm with her, saying that that doesn't make more sense... She then said she met someone and she's very in love with that person and doesn't want to hear of me anymore and go on with her life. I was very surprised, mostly because last week everything seemed going ok, she even said she missed me and stuff, and now out of nowhere she says she has someone and its over me. I kept saying that I wanted to talk to her face to face, and that if she told me all that I would respect her and let her be. She agreed to meet me up tomorrow in her lunch break. I'm very insecure, kinda shocked, and without knowing what to do. I like her a lot, I really think we could make things work out... I'm not sure if she really has got someone else, or if that she is so hurt and told herself so many times that we wouldn't work out, that snapped thinks this is the easier way for her. I'm feeling really depressed and really could use her support, but not even as a friend she wants to see me. TL; DR: Girl problem. Thanks, had to take it out my chest.