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**Averti$ingGuru** · 09-03-2012, 11:21 PM

JazakAllah Khair for all the replied. Alhamdulillah they have all been really helpful.

Insha Allah I'll watch the lectures soon sister Hafiz Gee.

make 100 istighfar every night while reflecting on your misdeeds, count up how many times you've made that same mistake each day, you should inshallah see a decrease over time. Insha Allah I shall try to do this and also try to keep quiet.

A practise that might help you controlling anger is start to let things go. Dont feel the need to react or take everything seriously. So unless its something very very important and needs to be fixed, or needs a hot reaction, then go for it, otherwise just let everything pass by. Tell yourself, what difference is it going to make on any ones life, whatever it is. OR just analyze deeply that i prefer this thing to be this way but the other person wants it another way, what if i let him or her have it their way, what difference is it going to make, what much can it cost you and just let it go, let em have it their way, tell yourself who cares, busy your mind and thoughts in dhikr of Allah. As that is the main purpose. This really is a big issue for me and is something I need to work on. I can't let go even the smallest of things sometimes. It is ridiculous and I know how much of a burden it is becoming to myself too as I'll constantly focus on such small matters.

Allah the Almighty has said: “O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as its.” May Allah (swt) forgive us all. JazakAllah Khair for the quotes and hadeeths sister KhaadimahDeen.

I really appreciate all your responses and Insha Allah I am going to try and put some of this advice into action. May Allah (swt) reward each and every one of you immensely for taking the time to help a sister out. Ameen.

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Averti$ingGuru Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 413 Senior Member	JazakAllah Khair for all the replied. Alhamdulillah they have all been really helpful. Insha Allah I'll watch the lectures soon sister Hafiz Gee. make 100 istighfar every night while reflecting on your misdeeds, count up how many times you've made that same mistake each day, you should inshallah see a decrease over time. Insha Allah I shall try to do this and also try to keep quiet. A practise that might help you controlling anger is start to let things go. Dont feel the need to react or take everything seriously. So unless its something very very important and needs to be fixed, or needs a hot reaction, then go for it, otherwise just let everything pass by. Tell yourself, what difference is it going to make on any ones life, whatever it is. OR just analyze deeply that i prefer this thing to be this way but the other person wants it another way, what if i let him or her have it their way, what difference is it going to make, what much can it cost you and just let it go, let em have it their way, tell yourself who cares, busy your mind and thoughts in dhikr of Allah. As that is the main purpose. This really is a big issue for me and is something I need to work on. I can't let go even the smallest of things sometimes. It is ridiculous and I know how much of a burden it is becoming to myself too as I'll constantly focus on such small matters. Allah the Almighty has said: “O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as its.” May Allah (swt) forgive us all. JazakAllah Khair for the quotes and hadeeths sister KhaadimahDeen. I really appreciate all your responses and Insha Allah I am going to try and put some of this advice into action. May Allah (swt) reward each and every one of you immensely for taking the time to help a sister out. Ameen.
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