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Jazakumullah every one who cared enough to read and replied. it may enable me to decide in a better way when i go back home.
currently, i am residing in south africa but my husband has confirmed his and my ticket to Isb/Pakistan on 27th ramadan. but so far i am just putting my faith in HIM because HE is the only One who can do anything for me. i cannot fight the evil that has dwelled inside the hearts of such humans that i am confused to call a family.
my mother in law keeps on telling my husband that islam allows 4 marriages and he must keep both me and his ex. so even if i question or argue or discuss this matter with my husband, he simply says that he knows what he is doing, he is only trying to meet his duties in best possible and justified manner because justice is important and that i should only focus on what islam says about polygamy to women... but in all this scenerio, i just keep wondering why his ex had to leave him if she wanted to come back and why my husband married me if he and his mother never wanted to leave the ex.
i was happy with my life, with my job, with my family and friends with a belief that if i do the right thing, nothing wrong can be done to me either but thats no the case always. this one year of my marriage has changed my whole perspective but what i have lost the most is trust in human beings.. when they become evil, they are ahead of satan.
may Allah protect us all here and here after.
P.S. i will get back to you when my Allah decides something for me until then please pray for me.
ma`assalam