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my husband and i visited the egyptian imam of the mosque near by but was not convincing. that is why i joined this forum to seek advice. Alhamdulillah, you are all clearing my views. inshAllah i am seriously intended to go to an Islamic Scholar or Scholars without wasting time because its my loss in either cases. ex wife wants me to get divorced and mother in law is happy both with divorce and me staying to serve her as punishment to rebel her by leaving her and going abroad with my husband.

i could not believe in our ummah people until i experienced it. more surprisingly, the whole family is well educated, well settled and well aware of the islamic laws, but all is vain.. their hearts are dark and they cannot see.
my husband's parents were upset with him and had stopped talking to him saying, "you took your wife with you against our will, now you shall not even see our dead faces". so he might be trying to cash this opportunity to make his parents happy again and clearly told me that he wants to be a good son and nothing is more important than parents here or here after.
but i told him that he should be thankful to me as he is trying to be a good son by using me and would have lost his chance if i was not existing in his life. but he is just so ignorant and says, "why do you think so bad of me, i am not as bad as you think, i care about u and feel that whatever happened is not right. i understand your situation and you should understand mine". his mind and concious seem to be controlled and hence sleeping.