this husband of hers lied to her right from the very beginning, she is being used and abused and bullied by her mother in law, it has been made clear to her that she is only in this marriage to be used by her mother in law......what kind of life is that??? she made it clear to her husband that she would only marry him if he divorced his first wife. he then went and deceived her to marry her on a lie. if it was not for this deception then she would not have married him in the first place! how many of us would have tolerated this if this had happened to our own sisters or daughters? only the cowards without any sense of honour would have tolerated this. she needs to get this marriage annulled and then she needs help from her fellow muslims to find a good, Allah fearing person to get married to.