[glazgoR@]

I'd make her volunteer at a half-way house or some where that those involved in domestic abuse receive treatment and support. I don't think going to the cops funeral would do anything, if the surviving family would even allow it. If they family gets mad she'll get what she wants, if they are sad and forgive her she'll think her actions have no recourse. I would first make her see the errors of her ways before making the responsible for her consequences. She first needs to repent before she can ask forgiveness.