[kabelshik]

Yeah it seems like "If you don't want to wreck your car, then just don't drive it" Isn't that avoiding the issue?

why not drive the car but don't get attached to it.

We enjoy flowers on the bushes in the garden but we don't go crazy when the flowers and leaves fall, likewise we can enjoy a summers day without railing and ranting at the coming of night.

Should we concrete over our gardens and refuse to go out on a summers day? Not for me!