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**GoodLover** · 12-26-2010, 08:43 AM

If he says this unsolicited, then I automatically assume he's lying. If he says something like, "No, they're okay for some folks but I just prefer Korean women myself," only when asked without getting sharp about it, he sounds more credible.

What you say is true, specially the bolded part; must be a defense mechanism to prevent feeling bad over being rejected or unwanted, something like "If I dont feel attracted to white women, then their view of me means little" (even if the person is completely infatuated with them).

The people that make a big deal about it and make sure everybody knows their opinion on the subject is reason alone to think they dont really mean what they are saying: it's like a self-fulfilling prophecy of failure.

12-26-2010, 08:43 AM	#35
GoodLover Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 362 Senior Member	If he says this unsolicited, then I automatically assume he's lying. If he says something like, "No, they're okay for some folks but I just prefer Korean women myself," only when asked without getting sharp about it, he sounds more credible. What you say is true, specially the bolded part; must be a defense mechanism to prevent feeling bad over being rejected or unwanted, something like "If I dont feel attracted to white women, then their view of me means little" (even if the person is completely infatuated with them). The people that make a big deal about it and make sure everybody knows their opinion on the subject is reason alone to think they dont really mean what they are saying: it's like a self-fulfilling prophecy of failure.
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