The non-religious people in your family probably seem to take it "very seriously"LMAO only because they know it would dissappoint the rest of your family if they said how they really feel, so dont flatter yourself and jesus into thinking they actually believe it. Since your so religious it sounds like a really oppressing and pressuring time for them. They might just be trying to be nice but its up to them to realize if its worth it to be fake and if that would be best in this situation to not ruin it for everyone else by starting an argument alfetta