[WrinnaArraple]

But they choose to be defined by their sexual orientation.

It's not "people who have green eyes and like soccer who happen to also like having sex with people of the same gender". It's "gay people".

And if you don't like the behavior of high-profile gay people, you attribute it to gay people.

If obnoxious homosexuals stopped defining themselves as homosexuals primarily before anything else, it may be easier for homosexuals as a whole. Like, the reason Timothy McVeigh comparisons to Islamic terrorists are invalid is because McVeigh didn't identify as a Christian first and foremost.