I agree. As for that argument, the answer to it is cause and effect. Piss people off and they're likely to react negatively. I don't care about your (not you - rhetorical 'you') personal problems. You chose to come out when you did, which is fine, and now you have. Now you control your actions from this point forward. If you choose to be a flamboyant stereotype, expect to experience much more intolerance than you otherwise would.