Too much gray area. Was Chastity Bono ever really a lesbian? She was a lesbian for decades, but now she decides she's transgendered and thus had a sex change. Now she can no longer date lesbians, as no lesbian would want to date someone with no breasts and a penis. The Africans are lucky to not have to deal with this nonsense. While their record on gay rights leaves a bit to be desired, maybe they're better off.