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Drea this is okay all you can do is teach and show love. In life our lessons are our own. They can be pointed out but it is our freewill to accept and learn from them. Just last year I had a friend I was trying to help and negative things continued to happen to her. Out of this world things one after the other. I had to remove myself from being around her because the choices she made were having a huge impact on me and my life, not for the greater good. She was my room mate and friend. I have the greatest respect for her and still love her with all my heart but her negativity was pulling me in. I left feeling terrible guilt that ate away at me because I was not able to help her. One day someone told me to let go of the guilt you can send her love and happiness even though you aren't near her. I recently heard she is doing better and living a great life.

I am not saying leave your friend but our lessons are our own. Until your friend is ready to understand and the lessons, events will keep pushing their way in. Show as much love and support as you can it will get better. Be the light in their life.