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10-31-2011, 08:34 AM
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Paybeskf
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That's awesome Manda, Sometimes we help so much that our friends never learn to help themselves. They use us as crutches to breed negativity which then just keeps them in that state. I, too, have a "friend"like this. She and I rarely talk. Usually she just emails me to complain about her horrible life, her drunk of a boyfriend and etc. I just say "Sorry you're having a hard time. Hope things get better." Because after years of coaching, she never once took any advice nor used it. I was just her "sounding board", still am.
Though we are still "friends" I no longer feed her by giving her my positive energy. Sometimes we just do this to save our own selves. Xo
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