Dear SilverFox, I did not seek to upset you with my post. But here is what I feel: (a) This site is "tamilbrahmins.com" . We are here because we are dwindling in numbers, we are scattered, and our identity is under siege. I presume we are here because we take pride in our identity (religious,social,& cultural) and hope to preserve what is left of it. Now, along comes some smart-alec and suggests that we obliterate our identity altogether through conversion!! Does this not defeat the very raison d' etre of this web-site? Why do you give voice to those who wish to bring about the destruction of what you seek to preserve? (b) I think the Tamil Brahmin community is being put upon precisely because we espouse free-speech, liberalism, and progressive-politics. If I did not believe in these values, then I would be at one of those right-wing, realpolitik sites - although lately I am beginning to wonder whether I should move elsewhere. Why waste time at a site that espouses the destruction of my identity, as even-handedly as the preservation of it? If we don't stick-up for what is ours, here, then where? Who speaks for us? Would the Jews/Americans/French take very kindly if they were asked to relinquish their Jewishness/American values/French traditions ? The ADL would be all over the place !! (c) I believe in collective responsibility (that is our tradition), and so I certainly don't intend to hang everything on the administrators (and certainly not you) - but I think there are bounds even to free-speech. When free-speech borders on the inflammatory, and questions our very existence - then we should have the freedom to protest, editorialize, and SQUELCH! I am sorry too, SilverFox - but I grow very disillusioned ...