[Les Allen]

The focus of this thread is mainly on non-whites that have a white partner. But of course, everyone is welcome to chime in.

I believe that when people are in an interracial relationship, there is a disparity between them, in terms of the value their respective race has. The closer the people are racially, the less disparity, the further away the more. Because of this disparity, the less-white party has to make up for it by bringing more to the table. This time, I'm not talking about an initial dowry or anything like that, but what you bring in everyday life. To be concrete: appreciating your partner, bringing them gifts, complimenting, making them a nice dinner, putting up with stuff, etc.

To me it seems, that this is all fine and dandy as long as both of the parties are non-White (for instance a Black and a Latino). But as soon as one of the parties is White and the other non-white difficulties arise. White people are simply very different from every other race and are hence very hard to please for a non-white. What I'm saying is that a White person does not perceive "normal" everyday pleasing like gifts and the other things I mentioned above the same way a non-White does.

So the question is, basically: How do you please a White partner in everyday life?

[NewYorkDoctorD]

If I get to say my opinion, this thread is better suited in Race & Ethnicity in Society. Moved from Relationships & Family.

[Psymoussy]

So the question is, basically: How do you please a White partner in everyday life?

You dump them and find a non-white person

Joking a side, Assyrians usually look down at other Assyrians when they merry into white people, your kind is simply too dull for us, perhaps I should rephrase what I just said, most Europeans are too dull for us, the only European groups that we're compatible with are Greeks and Southern Italians, they sort of share a similar culture and looks to us than to other Europeans so marrying one of them is just like marrying an Armenian (Which is common among Assyrians).

[bridsanaeds]

You dump them and find a non-white person

Joking a side, Assyrians usually look down at other Assyrians when they merry into white people, your kind is simply too dull for us, perhaps I should rephrase what I just said, most Europeans are too dull for us, the only European groups that we're compatible with are Greeks and Southern Italians, they sort of share a similar culture and looks to us than to other Europeans so marrying one of them is just like marrying an Armenian (Which is common among Assyrians).

I only have one piece of advice for you: leave Canada! Everything FAILED seems to be residing there.

Anyway. You are Assyrian. First and foremost, as for all other races, you need to marry other Assyrians. Secondly, you marry other Christian Orthodox people. Not "Southern Italians becuz they're sorta similar and sorta look the same and kinda cute" or whatever. That is the will of God, and you know it. God will punish you if you marry a catholic.

No offense.

I can imagine that an Armenian would work for you. But what if you marry someone that is of your religion, but fundamentally different? What if the regular things you do in order to please your partner would be perceived completely different?

[eI7iqNot]

In my opinion, White girls are less demanding and easier to please then the Latina girls I usually go out with.

[SM9WI8oI]

In my opinion, White girls are less demanding and easier to please.

Do you mean that they don't have the same demands on you as a Black girl would have? I'm guessing it's because they're simply not matriarchal. But in return White women expect to be taken care of.

[Wahwlsnt]

Do you mean that they don't have the same demands on you as a Black girl would have? I'm guessing it's because they're simply not matriarchal. But in return White women expect to be taken care of.

I've never been with a black girl before so I wouldn't know, but Latinas are usually more demanding in many ways such as taking them out, how I take care of my self, how I talk to them etc... while white girls don't really care as much about those things. This is just my personal experience so you can take it as grain of salt.

[JulieSmithdccd]

I only have one piece of advice for you: leave Canada! Everything FAILED seems to be residing there.

We have the best hockey talent in the world, we have GSP, ohh, and multiculturalism for the win, I love Canada and consider myself a very proud Canadian

Anyway. You are Assyrian. First and foremost, as for all other races, you need to marry other Assyrians. Secondly, you marry other Christian Orthodox people. Not "Southern Italians becuz they're sorta similar and sorta look the same and kinda cute" or whatever. That is the will of God, and you know it. God will punish you if you marry a catholic.

No offense. First, this shows how ignorant you are of Assyrians, we have 3 major religious branches, one is Orthodox (They usually call themselves Syriacs), one is Catholic (They call themselves Chaldean), and one is independent but more similar to Orthodox than Catholic (Church of the East, or also known as Nestorian), my father follows the Nestorian branch and my mother is a Chaldean Catholic.

Second, why don't we merry other Orthodox people that live near Greeks like Serbians, Bulgarians, or Macedonians for example? Because culturally they are not like us, Greeks are.

I can imagine that an Armenian would work for you. But what if you marry someone that is of your religion, but fundamentally different? What if the regular things you do in order to please your partner would be perceived completely different? I would obviously prefer my own kind for marriage (My fiancee is Assyrian), but among Assyrians, others that would be acceptable the most outside of our culture are Armenians and Greeks.

[Impariclainna]

You mean culture? not "race"... Maybe you're talking about ethnic Russians VS all the minorities that are minorities because they took their land. I agree with you, ethnic russian seem to be more difficult to please. but it is just an illusion. All it is about is just superficial, and I don't want you to make me think that ethnic russians are superficial.

Ow, and culture changes all the time. I bet poor communist russians aren't the same as even poorer current russian.

[peakyesno]

LOL, there's something wrong with you, miss Mary.

[mikeyyuiok]

Mary, kindly get over yourself. At this rate you will never get married.

[Lenny Hensley]

Mary, kindly get over yourself. At this rate you will never get married.

You never know. She is Russian.

And supposedly turned down proposals from oligarchs.

[LarpBulaBus]

In my opinion, White girls are less demanding and easier to please then the Latina girls I usually go out with.

I agree, white girls are the easiest to please. They don't ask for many material things either.

[megasprut]

I agree, white girls are the easiest to please. They don't ask for many material things either.

Probably because they don't need it. I wager they're more likely to come from a decent family and provide for themselves. *shrug*

[rozettasmolanov]

Probably because they don't need it. I wager they're more likely to come from a decent family and provide for themselves. *shrug*

Exactly. In North America and West Europe women don't have parasite behavior. If they want something they just get it by themselves.

[Kubasarika]

another ethnocentric psedo intellectual....preety much the "norm" of this forum posting his or her nonsense
aint shit new

[WournGona]

Mary, as a Mail-order bride, what do you bring to the table? Being white is just not enough.

What's your profile number on a VolgaGirl.com?

I'm feeling generous and would love to lift you out of poverty.

[VodsNittats]

Mary, kindly get over yourself. At this rate you will never get married.

I already got married to a White European, thankyouverymuch.

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Mary, as a Mail-order bride, what do you bring to the table? Being white is just not enough.

What's your profile number on a VolgaGirl.com?

I'm feeling generous and would love to lift you out of poverty.

Sorry dude, Whites only.

And I already covered the payment part in this post: http://www.forumbiodiversity.com/sho...&postcount=172



The topic is mainly: how do you please a White partner?

[secondmertg]

I already got married to a White European, thankyouverymuch.

Well, you won't keep him for much longer if you don't brush up on your netiquette. Manners maketh the woman.

[Singukil]

LOL, there's something wrong with you, miss Mary.

Sure.She thinks for herself,terrifying lol. Many russian women are "racially aware",in fact all to whom I spoke to(not many though) said that to marry outsiders is wrong,even one that was supposedly communist said that to me. There are the mail order types too I guess,although those can be found in most societies where women outnumber the men(and having more than 1 spouse is illegal). Just different type of cultures,I don't expect some americans to 1)understand that not everybody is american or americanized 2)value or respect foreign ways,because "they are all wrong" and "too much wrong here,let's send Rambo to do some good". *jking