[sabbixsweraco]

Who the hell bloody does.

As you guys might know I had been seeing a girl for what has now been two months. We had some good times I took her out for drives, weekends having fun, weeknight dinner and some work time lunches. We had made a few travel plans to do things in the future. All seems to be going pretty well. Just to ad on top of that I had been staying at her and yes things happened, so to me that's a good sign of things going alright.

It always seemed like I was the one guiding the relationship, always making the moves, always doing the cuddles, always sending her at least 1 message a day. I just feel like she wasn't always all that into it. So I decide to stop txing this week (she prefers txt over calls as I asked) and see if she would send anything. She doesn't try to communicate over 4 days. Granted she had been moving house, but she didn't even tell me in the first place she found a new place and stared moving. So today I just can't let the day slip by without askinging if anything is up.

Hi, I haven't heard from you in a while. Just wondering how you are. I hope everyting is ok between us. Sometimes I feel that perhaps you're keeping your distance. Just to let you know, I've had a good time with you when we're together. I know you're busy, an you have your own friends and family that are important, so I understand if you need space. Maybe I'm just being paranoid.lol. Well I hope you have a nice day. Take care she writes

Hi, I'm sorry I haven't made time 4 u have been busy and it's not right I do this 2 u obviously I'm not ready 4 a relationship ur a gr8 guy that deserves better and u will find a gr8 gal I am sorry I have 2 end this Thank u 4 everything plz take care xo So I guess it's over. It did seem like she wan't full ready. Though at the same time I was putting effort in to try to make things work.

Oh well it sucks I didn't all that far. I don't know how how I end up going from something that appears to be going well to suddenly being broken up.

I don't know if I should try and salvage this in a week or so, or if I should just let it die.

[FYvWldC0]

It's not to good if you have to do all the moves, if she was that into you she would of been texting you and making the moves and at least letting you know what's going on when you not spoke to her for some days. It should be a two way relationship even if it's in it's early stages if it's really going to work.

it seems like you was really into her and you had some good times but she did not have much motivation to carry the relationship on with you for some reason,.

Plenty of fish in the sea though, am sure you will find a more motivated girl that is more into you for the long term in the future.

[chuecfafresslds]

let it die mate, is she the one you met on a dating site ?

if she is she's probably had a few dates on the go at anyone time a anyway.

[sabbixsweraco]

Yeah I'm going to let it die. To be honest I felt like it couldn't last. However I thought perhaps it's one of those things you have to keep working on and it might turn around the more we got to know each other.

She said she had no one else but it sounds to me when I asked her about her past relationships, they didn't last very long either. She might be one of those girls that just doesn't want any particular guy around for too long.

Oh well I just sent a final txt saying that it's been nice, take care. etc.

[altosburg]

Oh well I just sent a final txt saying that it's been nice, take care. etc.

well, thats the best you can do. Unless of course, you know a place in town with cheap whores. In that case, one of them would be the best you could do. You will just torture yourself if she is the last one you took mental pictures of naked. A cheap ***** can nip that problem in the bud, so to speak

[chuecfafresslds]

Now that you've sent that message,be on your guard for the influx of head **** attempts by her,if shes a reasonable sort then that should be the last you hear of her,but alas you do get the odd weirdo who keeps sending texts in an attempt to try and give you false hopes of starting the relationship up again only to **** all over you when you take the bate.

I don't know why they do that,but its out of order.. ****ing with someones feelings like that its probably some self gratification knowing that your still hurt and they can kick you in the balls a second time.

[erroxiainsona]

me and my wife dated for almost 9 years and been married almost 4 and I still dont understand the way she acts and thinks sometimes. at christmas we decided we werent going to get each other anything since we have a kid on the way, and instead would use the money for things around the house that we really need and for the baby. then the week before christmas she tells me she got me something small but I didnt have to get her anything if I didnt want to. Knowing she would be upset if I really didnt get her anything I ended up only having 3 days to find something because of being out of town with work all week. after we opened gifts she even told me she would have been upset if I hadnt got her anything. I told her we agreed not to get anything, and that I was upset that she got something anyway, and that didnt make things any better. It didnt help her mood either that she was working night shift at the hospital the day before, of, and after christmas.

Dont expect to ever understand them. Best you can do is put an honest effort into a relationship and hope that they are doing the same. In your situation I would have probably done the same thing because it most likely would have ended up the same later down the road when you got tired of being the initiator for everything. Then you would have had more time invested in it and probably had more things that you bought together, and more of an emotional attachment which would have made it more painful to deal with.

[mesZibeds]

**** that bitch lenny...I bet you gave her your time and your care and she shuts you down in a text? forget that...you deserve better

Find someone who is actuaglloing ogoing to care when you put your feelings into her


P.S>

Im Drunk!

HAppy Christmas

[JacksHH]

We're guys, we're not supposed to understand them!

Lenny, you can't say you didn't see it coming, though, can you?

[altosburg]

when you put your feelings into her

LMFAO...

[Enfotanab]

Women are EXACTLY like cats, you dangle a piece of yarn in front of them they go effing nuts. You give them the ball of yarn, they lose interest. Make yourself unattainable and you wont have this problem anymore.

[sabbixsweraco]

Well it is probably best it ended sooner than later, I felt there were some things that were not going to work later down the line, but at the same time some things change when you're with someone for a while. Granted though I do feel sad. I was sort of hoping for something good. This has been the longest I've been with a chick. 2 months! lol. Now having to start from square 1 again, I don't get too many opportunities to make a start on someone.

Well I have some holiday time that I arranged in Feb and we were going to take a weekender. So I guess I can scrub all that and do my own thing.

I don't know if I should start looking to date someone else or give it a bit of time?
My ex in Adelaide (granted that never took off as such) is looking hotter than ever lol, infact I was chatting to her the other day and gave me a smile. I doubt we would work out but I'm a sucker for her still as she's just so pretty.

I know what I need, I'll finish off my bottle of wine on the coffee table.

[LookSe]

Oh well I just sent a final txt saying that it's been nice, take care. etc.

You should have ended it with "BTW, I was going to say something sooner, but you should go to a clinic to get checked out"

[casinobonuswer]

I don't think it's too difficult to understand....

Lot's of people (women included) will find it hard to break a relationship off, especially if the other person is being very nice to them.

I think she simply wasn't that into you, yet she can see what a nice, trying person you are. So it took a bit of a poke to get her to admit she didn't want a relationship with you, otherwise it would have dragged on longer.

That's how I see it anyway, but maybe that's too simple.

[bestcigsnick]

It always seems like they are attracted to the bad guys. One time a really liked this chick and after dating a week or so, she just up and shut me down, no phone calls, wouldnt answer mine so I started screwing with her head. I got her answering machine one night and told her she was an idiot for leaving her bra at my place and my real girlfriend had found it and thanks alot for causing so much stress in my real relationship. "How hard is it to keep up with your clothing?", and "nearly cost me the girl I want to marry" . and "If you get a call from her, just deny it" and I didnt even have another girlfriend at the time. So anyway, this little bitch blew up my phone for 2 solid days and I didnt answer. Point is once she thought I was a little bit of a badboy and there was some drama involved she was on me like stink on ****. Falling in love with a woman is like trying crack cocaine, it just aint gonna turn out good.

[lXwVlTgO]

2 Months and i bet you didn´t tap dat sh!t.

[no]

[sabbixsweraco]

2 Months and i bet you didn´t tap dat sh!t.

[no]

lol what? Already said first post I did.

Happy New Year Lenny.

[lXwVlTgO]

lol what? Already said first post I did.

Happy New Year Lenny.

you said cuddling m8, what the heck is that all about ?
Did you wear a care bear T-shirt whilst "cuddling" ?



btw: im trying to make you feel better here you know,
some say kicking a man that´s down is lame, but i say if it doesn´t kill you,
it´ll atleast leave some internal bleeding

[sabbixsweraco]

lol. Cheers

Actually this week I arranged to meet up with one of the German girls I met on the Contiki tour in the US. She's been touring Aus. She says she wants to meet for drinks, but she's always from time to time sent a message and it's her that wants to meet up. Lol, I wonder if she's been wanting a Contiki root since the Grand Canyon or something.

[lXwVlTgO]

There you go m8,
Imo German women are the most beautiful in the world.
Back when i was a bartender i had a discussion with a GI once, asking him about how he liked Germany, the women, etc.
He said it´s common knowledge in the Army that if you can´t find someone to **** in Germany you´ll never find someone to **** at all.

I thought that was rather funny [rofl]

edit: btw whats a Contiki root ?