[SzefciuCba]

How silly is this. We have a vanity handicapper in our group - she has a 23 HI, but really should be a 33 at the least. You know how women are though - no one wants to confront her so in outings strokes are adjusted to reflect her "real" handicap - she hasn't caught on yet. The general consensus is that she's only hurting herself, but no one wants to be in her group. We did confront her once and she cried. Did I mention that she's obese and thinks people don't like her because of that - not because she cheats. I think men are better at dealing with things like this.