Dua to ask allah to give you the girl you want?
 

hello muslim borthers, i am new to this forum and i am the follower of ibadhi sect. Although i am ibadhi, i also accept teachings from other sects as long as they are valid. i know there are some people who are against Ibadhi sect as they regard them as Khawarij but once you seek knowledge you will come to accept them as fellow muslim brothers. so please brothers dont attack me because of my sect, lets work together as muslims and solve the problems we have peacefully.

Now to what i really want to ask....

is there any dua that i can read to make this girl love me and accept me?
i met a girl on social networks and we get a chance to meet personally, she considers me as a best friend and same to me, well i found myself falling in love with her so much! i couldnt concentrate on anything, she is just the girl that i have waited to meet for long time. i love this girl and i want to marry her, please brothers help me out on this one. any dua to recite, i want to ask Allah to gift me this girl... please guide me how, what dua i should recite...

thanks..

Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

1. "There are three whom Allah must help: the mujahid in the path of Allah, the reporter (of a message) who wishes to discharge his responsibility, and the one seeking marriage in order to guard his modesty."
{At-Tirmidhi, Ahmad, An-Nasai and Ibn Majah. Authenticated byIbn Hibban and Al-Haakim, with whichAdh-Dhahabi agreed}

2.`A Muslim man can acquire no benefit after Islam greater than a Muslim wife who makes him happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he commands her, and protects him when he is away from her in herself and in his property.' (Nasa'i)

3.`The most perfect believer in faith is the one whose character is finest and who is kindest to his wife.' ( Tirmidhi and Nasa'i) Getting married /proposals Duas & Islamic Etiquettes

http://www.*********/matri1.htm

duas. org is a Shia website.

sorry!

I didn't know about that.

So that means if i asked allah to give me this girl for marriage, Allah shall grant the wish inshallah, correct me if i am wrong XTREM. because the girl i met makes me happy and i am willing to marry her...

please post me the Duas if available..... btw CAN I MENTION HER NAME WHILE SUPPLICATING?

i accept any site of referene even if its shia or sunni...

I am in the same problem. Now i am following a book called ''nayamol quran'' written in bangala. I do not know what will happen.

Ask from Allah SWT to grant you that which is best for your duniya and akhirah. It is not the means ( asbaab ) that make a person happy but the taseer ( effects ) are what we crave. I guess what you are looking for is a life with happiness, peace of mind and respect between the spouses.
We do not want to end up being the toddler who runs towards the fire just becuase it looks shiny and fascinating.

As the elders say we have become so besotted with Asbaab that even in dua we supplicate for the asbaab.

Sorry if I discouraged you, but I feel it would be better if you pray that Allah SWT gives you X if that X will be a source of happiness in duniya and akhirah.

i agree with skhkmomin, we don't truly know what is good for us, only Allah knows if this girl is truly good for you so always pray for Allah to grant you the best whatever that may be

wallahu alam

Your story begins with Haraam. I wonder what fruits it will bear..

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truly!
even thinking of a non mehrum is haram...
may Allah swt gv all of us life full of emaan!!ameen