[MariaBeautys]

Dear, brothers and sisters... Hope this reaches you in the best of health. Im a woman in my 29th year, i dont have a professional degree or a decent job and my father is retired. So at times, i do have financial trouble. Although, my father is well off Alhamdulillah, yet he avoids giving me any money, as a pressure on me to get married. What he does not understand is that its not my fault, n everythin has a decreed time.
I have been praying for years and year now, but its as if my condition just does not improve. I am still standing where i was 5-6 yrs from now. Please Please, brother n sisters pray for me. I just breakdown and lose faith at times. But then, something hurtful happens n i keep doing zikr n i keep praying.. Why is my situation stagnant??! ..
My name is Khadija Usman, next time please, remember me in your dua, when yo make it. Allah swt knows best whose dua He is waiting for to open His favor on me. Know that i always mention my sick brother n sisters, those in debt n those who are cchildless or in a similar situation as me. May Allah swt accept all our prayers. Ameen

JazakAllah khair

[AK47rulz]

May Allah help you.

Why don't you get married when your father wants you to marry?

[imporrilk]

Dear, brothers and sisters... Hope this reaches you in the best of health. Im a woman in my 29th year, i dont have a professional degree or a decent job and my father is retired. So at times, i do have financial trouble. Although, my father is well off Alhamdulillah, yet he avoids giving me any money, as a pressure on me to get married. What he does not understand is that its not my fault, n everythin has a decreed time.
I have been praying for years and year now, but its as if my condition just does not improve. I am still standing where i was 5-6 yrs from now. Please Please, brother n sisters pray for me. I just breakdown and lose faith at times. But then, something hurtful happens n i keep doing zikr n i keep praying.. Why is my situation stagnant??! ..
My name is Khadija Usman, next time please, remember me in your dua, when yo make it. Allah swt knows best whose dua He is waiting for to open His favor on me. Know that i always mention my sick brother n sisters, those in debt n those who are cchildless or in a similar situation as me. May Allah swt accept all our prayers. Ameen

JazakAllah khair

assalamu alikum you are in my preyers sister, without doubt

[Seilehogshell]

Dear, brothers and sisters... Hope this reaches you in the best of health. Im a woman in my 29th year, i dont have a professional degree or a decent job and my father is retired. So at times, i do have financial trouble. Although, my father is well off Alhamdulillah, yet he avoids giving me any money, as a pressure on me to get married. What he does not understand is that its not my fault, n everythin has a decreed time.
I have been praying for years and year now, but its as if my condition just does not improve. I am still standing where i was 5-6 yrs from now. Please Please, brother n sisters pray for me. I just breakdown and lose faith at times. But then, something hurtful happens n i keep doing zikr n i keep praying.. Why is my situation stagnant??! ..
My name is Khadija Usman, next time please, remember me in your dua, when yo make it. Allah swt knows best whose dua He is waiting for to open His favor on me. Know that i always mention my sick brother n sisters, those in debt n those who are cchildless or in a similar situation as me. May Allah swt accept all our prayers. Ameen

JazakAllah khair

Everything has its destined time but we have to make an effort. Anyway I am not going to say any further. I am a great sinner so my dua wont have much weight, but we never know, it may just be the time of acceptance.

May Allah Swt grant you a loving and pious husband who will be the coolness of you eyes and you to his. May he bless you with pious children who will raise the flag of Islam once again like in the time of the Sahaba Ra. May he accept all your duas, bring you entirely on the path of siratul mustakeem and make nothing more beloved to you than the sunnah of Muhammad Sallalahu Allaihi Wassalam. Ameen.

n.b. The one making the dua is more in need of it than the person in whose favour it is made. Please, please remember me in your duas as well as I am in great, great need of it, the most in need from amongst the entire ummah or Rasool Sallalahu Allaihi Wassalam.

[MariaBeautys]

assalamu alikum you are in my preyers sister, without doubt

JazakAllah, sister... May Allah swt always keep the doors of His Mercy open on you and grant you good in both worlds... Amen.

[MariaBeautys]

Everything has its destined time but we have to make an effort. Anyway I am not going to say any further. I am a great sinner so my dua wont have much weight, but we never know, it may just be the time of acceptance.

May Allah Swt grant you a loving and pious husband who will be the coolness of you eyes and you to his. May he bless you with pious children who will raise the flag of Islam once again like in the time of the Sahaba Ra. May he accept all your duas, bring you entirely on the path of siratul mustakeem and make nothing more beloved to you than the sunnah of Muhammad Sallalahu Allaihi Wassalam. Ameen.

n.b. The one making the dua is more in need of it than the person in whose favour it is made. Please, please remember me in your duas as well as I am in great, great need of it, the most in need from amongst the entire ummah or Rasool Sallalahu Allaihi Wassalam.

JazakAllah brother, may Allah ease all your hardships and bestow the best of His Mercy on you, ameen.. you are right one's own efforts also counts but He is the Controller of All Affairs...
When im grieved i recite Surah Inshirah, Zuha n Nasr.. these short surah plus two dua's of Mercy help me by bringing peace to my heart. Hope they help you too.


"Yaa hayyu yaa qayoomu, birahmatika astagheeth."
(On You Who is Everliving and Sustains and Protects everything, I seek assistance through
the means of your mercy..)

"Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min kharyin faqeer."
(My Lord, I am ever needful of any favor that You may send my way.)

Hope you see the best of circumstances soon. InshAllah.