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Old 10-19-2011, 06:11 AM   #1
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Default A very eye-opening experience
I just wanted to share this with you all...

Earlier today my two roommates and I drove out to a small plaza/mall area because we all had a few things we needed to pick up. When we were done shopping, my roommate drove us out of the parking lot.

I happened to glance to our left and I saw a girl holding a sign that said, "Broke and Hungry, Need Food." She looked to be in her 20's and had brown eyes, medium-length black hair, a denim jacket on, and a pair of pants that had several holes in it.

For just a moment we made eye contact, and she had the saddest look in her eyes I have ever seen in a human being. I could feel her sorrow in my own heart, in my soul even. It's all I could think about for the entire ride home. Her eyes were burned into my memory.

Once I got home, I just sat in my bedroom. I couldn't bring myself to do anything; All I could do was think about that poor girl, and how cold and hungry she must be. I knew what I had to do. I grabbed my keys and went back out to find her.

She was in the same spot she was when we drove by an half-hour before. I parked in a lot next to where she was, and walked over to her. I handed her $20 and some food and water that I bought on my way there, and in return she gave me the most sincere smile and Thank You I think I've ever seen, and she introduced herself as Jen. We crossed over to the parking lot where my car was parked, sat down on the curb, and began to talk.

Apparently she had come here and was going to live with a friend of hers who could get her a job. What happened, however was her friend lost his job and either moved away or lost his home as well. I'm not sure of the exact details but Jen ended up homeless and jobless as a result.

Once we got to talking, she turned out to be one of the sweetest girls I've ever met. She was grateful for the conversation, as she hadn't had someone to talk to in three days. She told me about all of the different places she's been and the different jobs she's held throughout her life. She's poured concrete, done roofing, and worked at several fast food restaurants. We also talked about video games she used to play growing up, and how she's a self-proclaimed Scrabble champion.

After an hour or so, we hugged and parted ways. We exchanged email addressed so we could keep in touch (she goes to libraries and uses the computers there.) She's going to be in town for the next few days, so I'll probably see her again before she leaves.

This whole experience really made me think. She went three days without anyone to talk to. That means nobody stopped to see if she was okay, if she had food or anything. Are people really this selfish? Do they really care so little about their fellow man? Jen is a wonderful person who's just fallen on hard times. It makes me wish people in general would be more caring towards their fellow human beings.
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Old 10-19-2011, 06:29 AM   #2
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Dan, bless you for being a kind soul and reaching out to another soul in time of trouble.

That said, she needed to meet you, and you needed to meet her. I don't know why, and I didn't try to read the reasons for this meeting, but rest assured that it was no accident.
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Old 10-19-2011, 06:49 AM   #3
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Its makes me sad and happy. It makes me sad because from what I have seen 70 percent of people really don't care not enough for a kind word...it makes me happy toknow that there are people as kind and loving as the people on this site..thank u for sharing
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Old 10-19-2011, 08:09 AM   #4
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Just takes one act of kindness to change a person's life. Bravo Dan
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Old 10-19-2011, 06:50 PM   #5
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I salute you Dan, of all the people in all the town type of thing. It was your destiny to meet tis girl and it was your destiny to help her. The reason may become apparent but then maybe it was a brief encounter. You learned a lesson and you showed how good a person you are. Don't lose your compassion.

Blessings

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Old 10-19-2011, 09:06 PM   #6
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I glad you did that Dan. It is very nice thing to help our fellow humans on our journey.
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Old 10-20-2011, 05:32 AM   #7
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Thank you, everyone. I don't think in my entire life I've ever been so sure of what I should do, or HAD to do as when I left to look for her. It was such a good feeling to see such pure, uninhibited happiness just because I took the time to talk to her.
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Old 11-15-2011, 04:41 AM   #8
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Good job Dan. I'm curious if you saw her again. And if you normally do this kind of thing; there are sadly literally a million like her out there. It is my personal belief that when a passing stranger attracts that much of your attention, it is time to take notice.
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