[ehib8yPc]

I was wondering how many people let their dogs sleep in their bed? Nitro always slept with me but his trainer told me he should not be allowed because I am saying he is the pack leader and can try to take on that role. I started crating him at night but recently I started letting him sleep with me again.

I talk to a lot of people that all let their dogs sleep with them and they don't have any issues. He is very obedient for 4.3 months and doesn't display any signs of dominance (yet)...

My old APBT (Spike- R.I.P) had issues of trying to dominate so he was not permitted on the furniture or in the bed. I like him (Nirto) sleeping in my bed, but if I am only setting him up for problems later I will start crating him again.

Just curious....

[hLabXZlK]

I think this about sums up my answer

[immewaycypef]

Mine sleeps with me he has never tried to show any dominance over me. He has slept with me since he was 8 weeks old I did crate train him but I also allowed him to sleep with me on certain nights when he was very young. He's 2 now so we only crate him when we leave the house. But he sleeps with me or my daughter he's usually at right on my legs and doesn't move all night lol. I have never heard of anyone saying letting a dog sleep with you say's you as the owner are not the pack leader and may try to assume the role I think that's silly. I know trainers and good ones who have dogs they work in sports that also sleep in the bed with them so I guess it's just a matter of opinion but I have never had any issues with any of my dogs.

[User-Luser]

Here is one of mine sleeping with my son

[bMc8F9ZI]

No problem here, either. She's a bit of a blanket hog, but that's not a huge deal.

Here she is with me on Hangover Sunday - She stole Hubby's spot when he got up to pee.

[ebookinfo]

Henry doesn't sleep with us all the time, just when one of us gets up and leaves.

Now he sleeps in our bed while we're gone and sleeps on the couch with us often. The only issue I would see with a dog sleeping with you is if they start resource guarding the bed. Never had that problem. Henry does wait to be invited, and he will get down if you ask him. We're polite to him and he's polite to us

[WebDocMan]

To me sleeping with a dog is one of the greatest joys of dog ownership.

Dominance theory is misunderstood and generally outdated as it is commonly used in reference to dog training:
http://drsophiayin.com/philosophy/do.../dominance.php

If that is the best advice your trainer has to offer; I personally would replace him with this:
http://codeazur.com.br/pix/blogs/CultureClash.pdf

and this:

[Derrida]

Not us. I can't stand having anything/one touch me when I sleep. Dogs, kids, husband, whatever. I need my space or I'm too aware of their presence to really rest.

Now naps, maybe, sometimes, if I'm just relaxing versus sleeping. :-)

[gWhya5ct]

The dominance thing is a lie, I wouldn't worry about it.

My dogs used to sleep with me every night. I have no problem with dogs being in the bed but lately I've made the rule of not allowing then on the bed all the time. They still get to sleep on the bed sometimes, only when I put the extra sheet down.

I just can't handle the damn dirt particles that always end up on my bed! My blue sheet was turned brown because of them. The fur doesn't bother me, just that darn dirt. I love my bed now, it's free of dirt! But I allow them to sleep with me 2-3 times a week if they want to.

I've had no issues with my dogs. My Lab x loved the bed and always behaves. I can't say much about my Kelpie x because she prefers the futon/couch rather then my bed!

[Elelaytet]

I only let BOTH mine sleep with me ... every night

[avaiguite]

Not me not anymore Callie moves around waaaaay too much and i get no sleep

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[Markdogas]

I always have at least one dog in my bed every night. It gets crazy cozy when all 4 are up there on cold nights.

And that dominance crap is just that, crap. My dogs know the bed is a privilege, and they'll get a whooping for getting snarky over it with any person or creature, and that odds are at some point they'll get kicked, rolled on or shoved off through the night as I'm an "aggressive" sleeper.

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[didrexx]

Scruffy is the most cuddliest? how would i sleep with out my night time scruffadoodle?

[Pharmaciest]

bed whore here lol its a king and he wont stop digging his body into my lower back at night. not good

[Immusaatmonna]

I believe that if there aren't any issues then why not! As long as they are invited in and it's on your terms! Dominance is crap with the bed thing unless your dog is having those issues already. If not that hell it's your bed. Here is my choice lol

[cajonnmu]

Marsha and Kitty sleep with me every night. Sometimes I let Conway sleep in the bed too but he is like an octopus with his legs all over. Generally he is crated, mexi gets the living area and Umah is in the hallway.

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[deackatera]

My dogs sleep loose in the house, I sleep with my bedroom door open. I couldn't imagine regulating my dogs to a small part of the house to sleep in, but my dogs all get on wonderfully, so I understand those that have dogs that don't get on well.

[goldcigarettes]

Nick & Frankie sleep with me during the week, Rosie sleeps on her bed next to my bed. On the weekends when DH is home, Nick sleeps in his bed next to our bed and Frankie sleeps in her crate at the foot of the bed. I just close, but don't latch the door and she stays in her crate until morning.
Rosie will SOMETIMES sleep with me, but she refuses to sleep on the same side of the bed as Frankie & Nick, and I get too hot with dogs on both side, so I end up kicking everyone off.

[Flerdourdyged]

Tank goes to bed with my daughter then is stolen by my son and when he is asleep Tank sneaks in with me every night.

[tinetttstation]

I always have dogs in my bed! As I type this, the computer is half on my lap and half on Bukra's butt (who is curled up next to me), Zealand is sprawled out across my feet, and Ruger is curled up somewhere under the blankets! Unfortunately, that's all I can fit in this bed with the way these guys sleep lol

Letting dogs into your bed isn't a dominance issue... but if you tell your dog to get off the bed, or try to move the dog, and they growl/defy you/etc. THEN you have a "resource guarding" training problem that needs to be addressed.