Appa Nallava, unukku thitta viruppamillanna/mudiyalainna nee thitta vaendaam. But if others are causing 'aggro' what do you think should one do? Poeyya, moonji, yaarum chumma ukkaandhu thittikittu irukkiradhu kidaiyadhu. It is a way of giving a vent to ones anger/frustration. That is all.