[smirnoffdear]

Thank you for the speedy reply and the interesting link.
I think I may miss this day by the time I return to Thailand, that's a pity.
Would it still be appropriate for me to give gold or money?
How much money should I give, and does it have to be a red envelope?
My friend is very proud and any time I visit he gets upset because I always offer to pay for things, I wouldn't want to put too much money in the envelope and offend him.
I think your idea of a golden Buddha representing the day of the birth is good and it might be more acceptable than cash.

[smirnoffdear]

My Thai friend and his wife have recently had an addition to their family, a baby boy

I hope to be visiting them very soon and would like to bring them gifts.

Usually, here, I would wait for the Christening or Baptism to offer a gift,
is there any such equivalent in Thailand?

I should point out that they are both Buddhist.

Does anyone have any suggestions for appropriate gifts for both Parents and the child.

Thank you.

[ergyuu]

I would personally only give money for the wedding/funeral. Practical gifts are always good - rattler for the baby or cuddly toy. Something to remind them of you is also a good idea. Is there a tradition in Ireland for something like this?

[ergyuu]

Usually, here, I would wait for the Christening or Baptism to offer a gift,
is there any such equivalent in Thailand?

There is usually a fire shaving ceremony after one month:

http://www.nonggrace.com/gor-s-world...r-shaving.html

Traditionally, you would give gold and also maybe some money in a red envelope. For myself, I gave a "gold" Buddha representing the day the baby was born.