[cookiemonster]

Dear friends,

I was looking up the meaning of vibhava tanha and the definition was "craving for non-existence or self-annihilation" which appeared a little misleading to me, because Ajahn Sumedho used the term in one of his books in connection with finding another person difficult and not wanting them to be the way they are .

"Craving for non-existence or self annihilation" seems as though it could mean wanting death.

http://www.buddhanet.net/budsas/ebud...ict/dic3_v.htm

I wondered if anyone could expand on this with some examples, please?

with kind wishes,

Aloka-D

[Rasklad]

To be, or not to be, that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
Or to take arms against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing end them? To die, to sleep,
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache, and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to: 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wished. To die, to sleep;
To sleep, perchance to dream – ay, there's the rub:
For in that sleep of death what dreams may come,
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,
Must give us pause – there's the respect
That makes calamity of so long life.
For who would bear the whips and scorns of time,
The oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely,
The pangs of disprized love, the law’s delay,
The insolence of office, and the spurns
That patient merit of the unworthy takes,
When he himself might his quietus make
With a bare bodkin? Who would fardels bear,
To grunt and sweat under a weary life,
But that the dread of something after death,
The undiscovered country from whose bourn
No traveller returns, puzzles the will,
And makes us rather bear those ills we have
Than fly to others that we know not of?
Thus conscience does make cowards of us all,
And thus the native hue of resolution
Is sicklied o'er with the pale cast of thought,
And enterprises of great pith and moment,
With this regard their currents turn awry,
And lose the name of action. Soft you now,
The fair Ophelia! Nymph, in thy orisons
Be all my sins remembered.

Hamlet

[onlyfun_biziness]

Consider the notion of drinking or drugging oneself "into oblivion" = "craving not to be"


Also, "I wish to be this, I wish to not be that..." falls under this pair.

[elton]

Thanks.