[nushentelve]

After studying some fundamental issues on Buddhism and nearly completed with the Dalai Lama's book on one's Heart Sutras, I've a concern about putting up with. I understand freedom from sufffering is just a kind of frame of mind, and modifying the manner in which you are planning. If someone is actually struggling with something horrible like cancer (my partner's parents equally died when she was young) or happen to be a sexual upheaval heir like myself, how do I reconcile those activities? Just how can one alter their brain for anything unpleasant? I don't think I've to think these things are great things to be able to go forth. They're actually not. If somebody includes a horrible illness I'm going to be unfortunate, and even though I've come quite a distance, there's nothing good by what happened to me. I've discovered some things, however it is mainly only caused me suffering. Comprehend I'm perhaps not asking from rage. I've only read over and over in my own present book concerning the different types of methods and putting up with to be separated, and I'm baffled as to how to use it to these conditions. I'm perhaps not carrying out a "why do because I realize that one these horrible things happen". I simply don't learn how to apply concepts, and on occasion even comprehend them precisely, to these terrible disturbing emotions. Ideas? If I have to be I'm available to anything, and right me on anything.