[searkibia]

It's bullshit. Lesbians can't fake it; there's your proof.

Fact is, women love it more than men, men have a crave to do it, but we don't care for the doing part.

[Galsteinbok]

Flubber is right in that aspect. The one thing you guys always, always miss is that just because your ready doesn't mean we are. As my husband says "the wind blows and a guys dic* gets hard" not so for women. And yes there are times when you're really not in the mood but it's just easier then trying to argue about it. That's not to say that you don't love them, it's just at that particular moment you may not be in the mood.

Lets look at the attraction thing, you guys get to look at what? Smooth skin, nice full lips, big boobs (if your lucky), smooth legs, nice round butt(again if your lucky) and someone that usually always smells good and takes care of themselves and appearance. What do we get? Hairy chest (if we're unlucky hairy back) hairy legs, hairy balls, hairy ears, whiskers that scratch, no full lips (men usually don't even have an upper lip), beer belly and let's not even talk about the smell and dirt under your fingernails because most guys just really don't care.

As for the in and out thing, it does have it's moments The problem with men is you are usually so wraped up in your own orgasm that you don't take time for the women much less most of you can't even find her clitoris. Then when you actually do your fingers either get worn out or you'll find the spot then move your fingers and go all around it but never get it. Which I can tell you from experience pisses your girl off and they usually just quit because their so mad. Sound familiar. Ever been trying to have sex and she just stops and acts pissed off....this would be why because YOU MISSED THE SPOT!! It's sorta like getting jacked off then she stops and starts up again and then stops and starts up again and so on and so on and brings you right to the brink and then stops. How frustrating is that? Welcome to our world.

And contrary to popular belief most women don't have orgasms during intercourse. Most of us have just become really adept at squeezing or vaginal muscles and increasing the moans to make you think we are but really we aren't. It just speeds up the process when you weren't in the mood in the first place but it's going to happen anyway so sometimes we just hurry it along.

Men don't understand that women need to be brought up to boil sowly. You need to touch your girl and carress her. We're girls we like soft things, so gently is always the key to a woman. Gently kisses etc...everything you do with your girl should always start off sweet, and gentle then you can move to the hard stuff once you've progressed. Again men don't get the fact that women need, and enjoy foreplay very much. Your idea of foreplay is at the commercial break of the football game to come to the doorway of whatever room she's in, drop trowsers and say you wanna? Let me tell you that just gets me going every time!

So yes, while we may have issues with men, we still love them and everything they do for us and how they make us feel. A man can make a woman feel like she's the most beautiful thing in the world even if she's 300 and been beat with an ugly stick. And that in and of itself is a powerful thing. Because who doesn't want to feel like they are the most important and special and beautiful person in the world. Women can't do that for each other beacuse we're just to caddy to each other. Besides men can give you a good poke and every girl needs a good poke now and then

[r5YOPDyk]

This picture is for those having difficulty listening to Tiamat.

[laperuzdfhami]

When I'm about to blow I usually just twiddle the clit for like 10-20 seconds as I keep going and that's enough to do it most of the time. I've got the timing down pretty tight nowadays.

Experience

[kranskregyan]

sucks to be your girl i guess.

[ecosportpol_ru]

Oh come on, you are seriusly telling me that you don't find moving your fingers inside a woman fun? Or that the instant "ohhh" reacitons you get when pressing their button isn't a turn on?

Its the best-- I LIKE foreplay-- hell an hour to play before any actual intercourse is amazing--all that teasing is fun both ways and I find that there is a huge payoff usually and I mean huge.

[Abaanto]

after the load is blown, who cares.


Though in practice if you care to blow the load again, you have to actually cares. If you know it is merely a one nighter, than who the hell cares.

[Kalobbis]

It's sorta like getting jacked off then she stops and starts up again and then stops and starts up again and so on and so on and brings you right to the brink and then stops. How frustrating is that?

Someone has never been teased properly

That can actually be great

[9rCR9hWL]

Because who doesn't want to feel like they are the most important and special and beautiful person in the world.

I'd say me, until a few years ago.

[Keendwainge]

QFT

But on the other side, the exploration of finding out what worked was a LOT of fun. Again its about attitude. If she is playful and willing to try stuff to see what feels good , thats great. If she gets upset if you aren't rocking her world in the first 20 seconds, then there is not likely to be a second date

I see it like this; once you establish a baseline of what works nearly 90% of the time, you have more freedom to explore different and new things that are also fun.

[GZFL2tDA]

Do women really enjoy sex? With me? Yes. With you? I'm not so sure.

As to the asking questions bit, I do that quite a bit. However, I find that many times women don't want to entertain such questions and just want us to know. Unfortunetly they can be a lot more technically difficult to please than men and while men are pretty much assembly lines with interchangable parts every women seems to be a custom job completely different from every other. If they are not willing to guide, I am not inclined to press the issue.

[arerrurrY]

after the load is blown, who cares.


Though in practice if you care to blow the load again, you have to actually cares. If you know it is merely a one nighter, than who the hell cares.

I don't know, I need quite a bit of time to climax so sex has always been more of a game than a "get high" thig for me.


Seriusly, I once told my GF that when I make her *** withouth poking action I feel like I'm playing a video game. (Also I always try to go for the high score )

[ZESINTERS]

Guy at singles bar to gal at singles bar:
"My philosophy is: get up, get in, get off, get out."
Gal: "Sounds like a Four-get it philosophy to me"

[FYIbiatches]

I was mocking you for "smooth" talking... nevermind...

[bs44MhUW]

My wife assures me that she really likes sex and would prefer more of it.

Then again, there are som home repairs I've been putting off...

[Kryfamid]

MSNBC only!

[GillTeepbew]

Tiamat you should take some responsibility too--

Done playfully The only thing I have learned over the years is every woman is completely different and you have to be able to learn what makes them feel good--

Heck I met a woman once that stated she had never had an orgasm except with the aid of her vibrating egg. So we incorporated that in our play.

Oh and tia-- Orgasm denial right before the peak can be AMAZING if you are in the mood for extended play-- its super frustrating if you want it right now but if you are comfortable you will get there eventually the stop start can be teasing

I do take responsiblity many times for his and mine own orgasm, and I love bedroom games and well I used to have a little black chest with all sorts of fun things in it. Used to keep it locked

Spoken like a man who has some knowledge. My statements were just generalizations about men. But men who actually take the time to learn and get it right.....

While I do love my Mr. Happy, and the washing machine, I prefer the human touch. As long as you hit the right spot Did I mention the shower massager?

For most people yes, but in our house the buzz word is stamina. Serious stamina, seriously scary stamina. So I'm thinking no on that one. But I have partaken in the past. They make lovely little things for men to slip over Mr. Winkie. Been there, done that got the t-shirt.

Again, that was just in general about men but it's nice to see that there are so many out there that actually do take the time to do it right.

Oh and Frostyboy........Mine are bigger!

[hiedeemom]

Who cares if women enjoy sex or baseball or law and order or anything. It is unnatural to stay with a woman for a prolonged period of time, we are not meant to deal with their whining and American Idol fanclubs, only to hit it and quit it, **** it and chuck it, for the good of our gene pool and the republic. They'll act like they don't like it but it gives their vapid brains things to gossip about while they drive on the wrong side of the ****ing road

[Adimonnna]

...while they drive on the wrong side of the ****ing road

Whoa!

[RaicickKida]

Lets look at the attraction thing, you guys get to look at what? Smooth skin, nice full lips, big boobs (if your lucky), smooth legs, nice round butt(again if your lucky) and someone that usually always smells good and takes care of themselves and appearance. What do we get? Hairy chest (if we're unlucky hairy back) hairy legs, hairy balls, hairy ears, whiskers that scratch, no full lips (men usually don't even have an upper lip), beer belly and let's not even talk about the smell and dirt under your fingernails because most guys just really don't care.

So I take it you don't like men, or that you prefer women?