[Zarekylin75]

Dead whale washed up on the beach literally half a block from where I used to live.


I understand they had to dynamite this whale. The state fish and game department came out and literally blew it hell then let the tide take away the bits of blown up whale.

[MilenaJaf]

Being 20
Being old

[RotsLoado]

[LianneForbess]

What a wonderful pet name you have for her.

[AOE6q4bu]

You should call her "old bicycle" to her face from now on

[LeaderBiz]

I'm afraid I don't have much sympathy for you Oerdin. You have a good job, you have a girlfriend who you should probably break up with because she deserves someone who actually cares about her.

Why on earth would you want to be 20 again? I don't get that. I wouldn't want to be 20 again, that was a horrible year for me.

[Adimondin]

I've never had sex with any one woman more than, like, 5 times, so I can't relate.

[Filling25]

And there you show your lack of experience . Just because the sex becomes less new and interesting doesn't mean the person cares for his partner less or is completely disatified with the relationship. And how do you know that's the only part he cares about? Talk about making a ridiculous assumption (which makes you, not Oerdin, look like a tool).

Why do you think there are so many ads and products for "spicing up your relationship"? And why all the jokes about the lack of sex in marriage? It's not because they are rare.

[monologue]

I know a lot of people who prefer a long term partner (even if they don't love them as much..) because the long term partner knows what they like.

How important this is to somebody obviously depends on the person.

JM

[giDdfezP]

And how do you know that's the only part he cares about? I also don't like how it gets harder to get a quality lay as you get older. I love my girlfriend and she's good looking but somehow everything seemed more exciting when two 20 years olds were fiddling around. Going on what he said here, it seems to be his top priority. I'm sorry Imran, I can't read Oerdin's mind, but from what he's said here it seems clear to me which he values most of all.

[truck]

Originally posted by Asher
In other words, you've no ****ing clue what we're talking about. We? Asher, how many women have you had sex with?

[SAUNDERSAN]

I know a lot of people who prefer a long term partner (even if they don't love them as much..) because the long term partner knows what they like.

How important this is to somebody obviously depends on the person. I'd agree, I think it gets better in a long term relationship though. Sure the passion might not be at the same level, but I'd argue seriously that you love each other more.

[Brainpole]

We? Asher, how many women have you had sex with?

Way to go Elok.

[Tinasblue]

Which brings up the question how many long term relationships with women have you been in Asher?

How do you define a long term relationship?

[haudraufwienix]

Originally posted by Asher
Why the **** do you assume you have to be with a woman to be in a long term relationship? Because you can't get married, duh.

[KojlinMakolvin]

I'm only 23, but I wish I were 20 again. Ahh what great times...

Right now it's moving, searching for a job, leaving behind friends.

and perhaps: I wish I had chased more girls when I was a bit younger instead of getting totally wasted all the time (as in daily). It's precisely the chase that's good, everything after that is just lame and predictable

[AALee]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
So I obviously have no experience about what long term relationships are like. Obviously, because you're a virgin you don't have any ****ing idea what long-term sexual relationships are like.

Thanks. You can apologize via PM or publicly for assuming I can only have a long-term relationship with women.

[UtidaBrar]

If Elok or Ben knew anything about gay men, it wouldn't be all that funny a question. I've known gay men who've had sex with more women than I have, not that I've had a lot of partners.

Really, this is just one more thread where Ben presumes to tell people with more knowledge how ignorant he is.

[swissloveone]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
No, but how would you know what a long term sexual relationship with women is like either?

I mean this is hilarious. If you have standing to offer advice then so do I, because as you said all relationships have similar features. You just don't have a clue, do you.

The problems inherent with long-term relationships (diminishing passion in sex, increasing frustration with quirks, etc) are gender-blind. It doesn't matter if you're screwing a man or a woman, the issues remain the same.

And you need to improve your reading comprehension. All I said is that a sexual relationship with a man is different then with a woman.

I'd like a pm apology to me and elok for calling us retards please. Why would I apologize for something you keep making more and more evident?

You think that sexual boredom only happens with women? Is that because you find sex with men infinitely exciting, or is it because you are a retard. Take your pick.

[leyliana]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi


Nice edit, che.

Which is why elok asked the question he did. We aren't saying anything about gay people in general, just asher. Which bit you in the ass because, ironically, I'm more sexually experienced with women than you are.

I wouldn't presume to know anything about what a long term relationship with a man would be like. I think men and women are very different from each other in what they want out of a relationship. I think that's because you're a sexist pig who thinks a woman's role is to service the man sexually and cook dinner.

Times have changed since your ideals from the 1920s. Women hold jobs now, women are independent, and women have single-handedly mismanaged some major American corporations.

Perhaps you should take a course on interpersonal relationships in Psychology. Most of the points of friction in relationships don't come from the fact that one of you has a 1 inch dick and the other a *****, it comes from personality conflicts and, for lack of another word, "boredom".

Quite frankly, a uber-Christian virgin republican is the last person in the world that should be commenting on relationships -- gay or straight, healthy or not. You're a prime candidate to be caught in the washroom of an airport tapping your foot.