[sueplydup]

16 views and no answer?!

Are you guys that clueless with women?

oh!...right...this is poly.



Spec.

[laperuzdfhami]

Originally posted by Spec

My gf is not a real woman...Because she is sweet, not a two faced ***** Spec, sometimes you're a dumb ass. I'm older then you, I've probably dated more women, and I can honestly say most women aren't "two faced *****es". The problem here hasn't been women but how you select women to date. The problem is you. Learn that and you can learn how to select better women and to stop selecting women with destructive patterns.

[erroxiainsona]

Originally posted by Asher
Is anyone else amazed that Spec is asking people what real women are like? Talk about an admission of failure in life.

[popandopulus]

Originally posted by Lorizael
Real women... you mean, as opposed to the imaginary ones I fantasize about? Interesting.

Definition of a real man according to Poly some years ago: Can take a punch, cant drink lots of alcohol, hard worker, can make a girl come.


Now, whats your definition of a real woman?

Spec.

[pumpineemob]

Well, Oerdin technically, from a purely biological point of view all women are "two faced *****es". This is a perfectly natural and logical outcome of evolution.
I not going to go into the exact details since I'm short on time, so I'll use the dumbed down version:

1. Girl finds nice reliable guy
2. Girl cheats on him with a not so nice alpha male type unreliable guy.
3. Reliable guy provides for the offspring

Result: Girl who does this has an evolutionary advantage.

[golozhopik]

Originally posted by Heraclitus
Well, Oerdin technically, from a purely biological point of view all women are "two faced *****es". This is a perfectly natural and logical outcome of evolution.
I not going to go into the exact details since I'm short on time, so I'll use the dumbed down version:

1. Girl finds nice reliable guy
2. Girl cheats on him with a not so nice alpha male type unreliable guy.
3. Reliable guy provides for the offspring

Result: Girl who does this has an evolutionary advantage. Well, thats not what I was talking about.

Its more like this: Lets take Kiki, Mindy and Sindy.

*Kiki talks with Sindy.*
Kiki: Hey Sindy, did you see Mindy the other day at the club? She was dressed like a tramp!
Sindy: Yea, I hate it when she does that! She always want all the attention that whore!
Kiki: Yea, I know, I hate her!
*Mindy comes in the room*
Kiki and Sindy: Hi Mindy!! How's it going! *kisses*



IMO, real woman ***** each other behind their backs. Real men say these things face to face.

Oh noooo! I am GENERALIZING!!

Spec.

[DF9sLGSU]

babe thread rules have been relaxed?

[Blaxastij]

Originally posted by Oerdin
Maybe the thread will be locked if we post more. Terrorist!

Spec.

[CGECngjA]

Originally posted by Oerdin
Sharon van der Knaap is my idea of a real woman.

oooh she's gorgeous.



Originally posted by Oerdin
wtf kind of outfit is that??

[yazetaw]

Spec is totally right that women are mostly gossipers who play with dolls, however I would caution him from making too many generalities beyond that because you will incur the wrath of feminists who relish whoredom, text messaging and abortion and will not be able to resist *****ing up a storm.

[chuviskkk]

Originally posted by Spec
IMO, real woman ***** each other behind their backs. Real men say these things face to face. So you're defining "real" women based on what you think most girls are like and "real" men based on your ideals?

What do you mean by "real" anyway? Are you talking descriptive (what most women are like, in your experience) or prescriptive (what you think a woman should be like to truly be a woman, in your opinion)?

I'm pretty sure men can be just as bad in backstabbing. The main difference is that men gossip and chat much less to begin with.

[Malinguenem]

Why worry about this "real" designation, Spec? Sounds like you've found a real winner in your GF. Just relax and enjoy it.

[Madjostok]

A good woman or a real woman. I guess to me they're the same.

1. They don't have to be models, but they should at least care about how they look. If they're a good partner, my vision will always be a bit rosey.

2. Minimal nagging and gossiping. Since this can't be totally eliminated......at least it not being the major focus in their existence. At some point they have to realize that nagging really doesn't get me to do what they want, but just the opposite.

3. A sense of humor. Not obnoxious haha funny but at least can appreciate a joke.

4. MOST IMPORTANT, a realization that they are not the center of the universe. I know this one is tough and a little of it is to be expected. But drama queens are really too high a maintenance for me. Yes, your father died so it's ok to cry and I'll consol you. But not just because a little static is making your dress bunch up.

5. They have to be willing to be my partner and friend, because "to death to us part really means something to me, and while good sex is important, it becomes less important as the decades progress so there have to be other things to keep you close.

[PRengine]

AND Of course, if they're a good cook and can help me keep the place clean. Many +s.

[toopyimport]

That girl is stunning.

My definition of a real woman: no fake bits, no botox or other treatments, no kind of surgery, and no tattoos.

[lymnCymment]

This is a good thread been thinking on this one for some time now.

1. They don't have to be models, but they should at least care about how they look. If they're a good partner, my vision will always be a bit rosey. Yes, to me a good woman looks just as good without her makeup as with it, if she has to gob on pounds of the stuff before she looks good to me, then it doesn't count.

2. Minimal nagging and gossiping. Since this can't be totally eliminated......at least it not being the major focus in their existence. At some point they have to realize that nagging really doesn't get me to do what they want, but just the opposite. I think it's good to be pushed when they know you are slacking off and should be doing better. That's the good form of this, it's important to know that she can tell me straight what's up without having to worry about hurting me. That's what a real woman will do you won't have to guess whether she's happy or not.

3. A sense of humor. Not obnoxious haha funny but at least can appreciate a joke. Yes this is really important too. It's nice to be able to tease and tease back.

4. MOST IMPORTANT, a realization that they are not the center of the universe. I know this one is tough and a little of it is to be expected. But drama queens are really too high a maintenance for me. Yes, your father died so it's ok to cry and I'll consol you. But not just because a little static is making your dress bunch up. Yeah this is a big one for me. To me a real woman puts the welfare of other people before herself. I'm not a fan of the drama queens either.

5. They have to be willing to be my partner and friend, because "to death to us part really means something to me, and while good sex is important, it becomes less important as the decades progress so there have to be other things to keep you close. Can't say I would agree on this one. It should all be together. Different ways of making each other feel loved and appreciated.

For the most part I have to add a few things.

1. She should be happy to be a woman and comfortable being one. I don't see much of this in most of the women I have met especially at university. They seem really unhappy with who they are and that spills over into other things.

2. She should be able to cook and enjoy doing so. It shouldn't be a chore or a burden, but as a way to give herself to her family. I admit I am not the neatest person, but I would be willing to trade on other things to get this.

3. Family should be more important then her work, or her other things. She should want to have kids and build a home.

4. She should be generous and kind and loving. I'd want someone who put herself last always. I've seen a few women like this who do everything for everyone else and put themselves last.

5. She should be smart and intelligent and be able to hold her own.

[AndreasLV]

People who put themselves last always will generally be quite slutty. But maybe Ben wants that?

JM

[HaroTaure]

Anyone remember this ad?

[JohnVK]

What a horrible thing to demand of someone. No, it's something that I think is a positive trait. I like people who are willing to make sacrifices who would give the shirt off their back for other people who are in need.

[9enackivegliva]

Unselfish is good. Putting themselves last is different though.

JM