[alanamosteller]

A quick recap of what was going on in my situation.Before my CW was having an affair with the OM,she had told me about how she thought that maybe her used to be bf/gf/co-worker was having an affair with the OM and from what she was telling me ,I thought the same thing.Then it ends up my wife starts having an affair with him also,even to this day my CW thinks they was fooling around at the same time she was........kinda complicated...........So this became evident when my CW got caught,this is what supposedly lead to the OM getting divorced,cheating with my wife not the OW.They didn't try to hide anything then,this is why I think my wife got used,to hide their affair,so the OM's wife wouldn't try to come after her.So now the used to be bf/gf/co-worker is still having an affair with this guy and is in the process of getting divorced from her husband,to be with this guy..........................So at last here is my question.................Being that cheating on their spouses is what brought these two together,how long will this relationship/marriage last and who will most likely be the first to cheat on the other,the man or the woman.................................Despite my situation with my wife cheating on me with this guy,I can't help to think that it's funny................Wonder if part of their vows will be,AND I PROMISE TO NEVER CHEAT ON YOU.

[doxinwasido]

I don't know who will cheat first, but they will cheat on each other.

First, they were willing to break their wedding vows and that is a really serious offence and speaks to their character. Second, we know that they are both more interested in satisfying their own interests. Both are selfish and self-motivated. Third, neither has learned anything -- neither is remorseful.

For those reasons, I am certain that they will continue to be cheaters.

KitKat

[alanamosteller]

Well KitKat,I think they will definitely cheat again,just not sure which one will first.Kinda can't wait to see which one.............To add to it,the OW had told my CW at one time that she thinks her husband had cheated on her,just couldn't prove it.She also had told how she had fooled around on her husband once,not sure if before or after he did.Also,before any of this drama started and we all were supposedly real good friends,kicking it up and all,this woman had said things and acted in a suspicious manner that made my CW and me think that she may be into swinging and maybe bi-sexual.Not saying for sure,just gave us that feeling..............But if that is the case,then that maybe the reason for them to want to hook up together,so they can swing.If so,they may have a good relationship.

[doxinwasido]

my goodness -- they really do deserve each other. I"m sorry you had to be subjected to this, BrokenHeartKY. I'd say each is a ticking time bomb as it pertains to cheating.

KitKat

[altosburg]

It's a tough call because just one month married to xWS, the OW/Wife was a Maid of HonHOOR at her best friends wedding and gave the best man a ball wash dance (using her shawl like a kitchen towel) at the reception. I have the picture, can I post it?

The kids report thier embarassment that thier Dad hits on everything that walks. Hotel Clerk, Gas Station Cashier.

Kids even said he bought a complete random stranger woman (and her kid) a meal at McDonalds and gave the woman his phone number.

I don't know BHIKY...Maybe it's an open marriage?

lol