[goolen4you]

So I found out my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on at the beginning of our relationship with my **** of a cousin who already had sex with two of my ex boyfriends. After hearing this news I was of course devastated and I did something stupid and cheated on him with one of his really close friends. I know two wrongs don't make it right but at the time that is what I did and I feel horrible about it? Should I or did he get what he deserves?

[cigsstorenick]

He cheated...you cheated...You are no better than he, so frankly no one here is really going to give a damn what you think...so go away and grow the Phuck Up.

[goolen4you]

No need to be an ass about it! If u couldn't answer in a better manner u shouldn't have answered at all! I clearly stated I was wrong I didn't need u making me feel worse about it!

[lmHVYs8e]

This forum is where you're going to get full advice and opinions. If you can't handle it, go to loveshack. Don't ask for help or anything if you can't handle the truth.

You cheated, he cheated, Doofus is right, you need to be more mature about it and either leave eachother and learn to be faithful or stay together and grow up.

[FloareTraurne]

Well, you asked if you should feel horrible and they agreed...you were hoping someone would help you feel better.

You'll have to forgive yourself to start feeling better. We all make a mistake in life and suffer the consequences. I'm talking about your mistake of letting him influence you into making a bad decision. It is a common response of many people, I understand, to be tempted to do a retaliation cheat. It's just that retaliation cheat won't get you much sympathy.

So, what you are going through is a consequence of his cheating and betrayal of you...as much as the person who takes a swing at the OM he finds in bed with his wife.

I guess it is a good sign that you feel horrible---sounds like you have a conscience. They are right, though...this will help you grow up regardless of your age.

So try to make amends (not to the cheater)...forgive yourself and remember the feeling so that you don't cheat on someone again. Read some books like How to Survive Infidelity...so that you can find a way to cope without doing more damage.
SIS

[meridiasas]

You, your boyfriend, your boyfriend’s “friend” and your cousin are all the same. In my book you all deserve each other.

BTW, if your cousin did this to your previous boyfriends, why in the heck would you even think of exposing other boyfriends to her? I really think you need to take a good hard look at the type of guys you date. Then again, since you’re a cheater, maybe you just don’t care.

[cigsstorenick]

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[Fosavoa]

shouldn't this be on the jerry springer show ?