[Drugsonl]

I just had to tell someone how angry I am. About 5 o'clock I found my 7 year old son hiding behind his dad's chair in the living room. I asked what's going on? He told me he was waiting for his dad to get home from work to surprise him. Apparently he spent some of his allowance on a key chain...some kind of west coast chopper thing. My husband likes motorcycles. Anyway, I realized that the little one didn't know it is Sunday and was expecting his dad to be in from work. I haven't seen or spoken to my husband since Thursday. I don't think my little one realizes that his dad is only at home when I'm not. My husband has been telling him he has to travel a lot lately for his job. With it being fathers day I thought that he would probably come by to see his children but never did. I told my little boy that maybe dad had to work late. He looked very sad and said that "he always works too late now. I don't get to see him hardly ever anymore". I guess I'm going to have to start telling the kids that we are going to divorce. My husband has begged me to wait on it and I've tried my best but this just killed me. I know some of you have stayed because of the children and I totally understand why but it has to be agonizing. I wish I could do it. I've prayed that I could but I must be too selfish. Then I think, I'm the one that picked him and had children with him and I deserve everything I have to endure for the sake of my kids having a stable home...but then I think in 20 years when he runs off with a 25 year old stripper or something... oh well, by then it probably won't matter. I guess I just want to know if anyone has stayed and found it worth it? I know there are those that did and found it not. The bad part is when my husband is with the kids he is always happy and his usual self and having a good time with them and they just love him to death and it makes me look like a grumpy old witch. He is the one that broke it all up and I look like the mean person.

[plaiskegizils]

That is so sad. My heart is with that little boy.

[SAUNDERSAN]

You did everything that you could, put the family first, forgotten about your own needs, all that. At the time when you married your husband, did you see what was going on? That he wasn't worth his salt? If you did we all know that you wouldn't have married this guy, yeah? You did your best and no one can fault you for that. If he proves himself unworthy and you know that you have to leave for your sake and that of the children, then you would be remiss in your duties if you didn't, right? I feel for your son, he doesn't deserve this sort of thing, but that isn't your failing, it's your soon to be ex's for not being able to choose the right side, he chose a stripper instead of his family and you and your children shouldn't have to pay the price for this, yeah?

Now worries, remember that. Retrospect is ALWAYS 20/20!!

[Drugsonl]

Well, he's here kneeling by my son's bed crying like a buffoon. Looks like he's had a few. Thank God my son is asleep. Apparently my little boy called him on his cell asking where he was. Husband found the home made card and key chain on the chair. Gotta go. Don't want him waking the little guy and upsetting him.

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tijaco, i am so sorry to read about your little boy. my kids are grown but i can tell you that usually know or sense what is going on and the pain is there regardless of their age. you have to do what is best for you and your children - your husband sounds very selfish, not thinking about his son who seems to loves him so much. i think you are a very stong woman and hope that things turn out well for you and your boy.

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